Best Friend Vs Boyfriend

For about three months now, i’ve been feeling that my best friend is uneasy about my relationship with my boyfriend. Not that she doesn’t like my boyfriend, but she misses being in a relationship herself.

 

I remember the time when i was single and two of my best friends were in long-term relationships. I wasn’t jealous but yes, i envied them. I wanted a boyfriend and not just a boyfriend but the one i had been waiting for since i was a teenager. And now that i’ve found him, this best friend of mine is drifting away from me.

 

Earlier, she said i wasn’t spending enough time with her but then i also felt that she hated being single and that’s why I being with KJ bothered her.

 

I understand how it feels to be single when your best friend is in a relationship. A few years ago, she was in a relationship and i was single. Now, it’s the other way round. And this relationship i have with KJ is not just another boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. It’s the right one. And it seems perfect so there are rarely any fights that we have that do not end in that moment or in that phone conversation. There is nothing that needs to be shared with my friends as such.

 

I always imagined how perfect it would feel when you’d meet the love of your life and then introduce him to your best friends. And your best friends would understand how important he is to you because he is what you’d been waiting for all your life. Though all my best girls have met my boyfriend and like him, but something just feels off about this one best friend.

 

This best friend of mine is somebody who likes to be in a relationship and that is what she is missing right now. And that is why she is drifting away from me because i have something she doesn’t. I feel bad that she feels that way. I feel bad when she doesn’t talk about this to me.