Sharing is not always good

You can even share your favourite chocolate with your loved ones at times but there are times when sharing a minor tiff in your romantic relationship with a loved one can cost you. Especially if that loved one is a narcissist and wants somebody upon who they could try their leadership skills; with whom they try to be a self-help book; a godmother.

 

I was not looking for any of it. I would not have shared the problem with this loved one if they hadn’t seen me get all emotional about this problem. Anyway, we had a fight because they understood what the problem was about. I cannot let that person or anybody else to see my relationship as something of a meagre relationship.

 

And as far as my romantic relationship is concerned, the tiff was nothing. KJ did not even raise his voice. I simply stated what i was feeling (at times raising my voice) and he listened, understood, came up with suggestions and asked me if there was something i would like him to do about the whole situation.

 

Right now KJ and i are going fine and strong. And that loved one and i are not on talking terms. Hope things get back to normal with this loved one of mine. But i still can’t let anybody think they can make a follower out of me because they want to become a leader. I can’t let anybody judge my relationship with KJ. They don’t know us and the kind of understanding KJ and i share.

 

KJ and i rarely have any issues. And if there is something any of us gets upset about, we solve it on our own and in the moment. So i’ve never shared KJ and my problems with anybody else. This was the first time and it got all messed up. Sharing your problems is not always good i guess.